Couple, Young, Romance, Lifestyle
I enjoy writing about’Relationships’ because it’s one of my favourite subjects. Honestly, today relationships have proven to be like the’changing of clothing’ every day. People love to change their partners every now and then. The gist of all is: ‘the changing times’. However, if you aren’t able to foster or nurture 1 relationship, then you aren’t likely to nurture the other. Though, there is one exception in my opinion to that which I just stated; it is not to target those connections that are abusive, where the victim male or female is physically or mentally abused. We get to live life once, and it does not mean that we succumb to any connection that’s torturous in nature.
After conducting a brief research study on the topic, it’s realized that different writers have made varying observations regarding this topic. Each writer expresses his/her own view as they perceive and define’relationship’.
Turn’on’ your Positive Behavior in Relationships
Author Carr in’Positive Psychology: The Science of Happiness and Human Strengths’ stated that positive psychology is linked to the positive emotions and affection in your relationship. This being one aspect, the other is the endurance and perseverance to work at your relationship. If you love and care about your partner then it’s obvious you will work towards sharing a positive connection.
Stop seeking Perfection in your partner
The realization is important that we are human beings, and not one of us is perfect. Therefore, we cannot expect perfection in our spouse. There’ll be certain behaviours that may irritate, or there might be some weaknesses which are too tough to take, but the bottom line is you need to deal with those behaviours in a positive manner without humiliating or demeaning your partner. Rather than reacting impulsively to those behaviors, you can wait for the right time to talk to your partner about certain behaviors that seem bothersome. The confrontational talk needs to be non-judgmental, so that your partner is a excellent receiver to your concerns.
Overcome the Temptation
As we are living in a new age it has become easy to change partners or move on without giving a thought to your connection. The biggest temptation nowadays appears to be’gap-fillers’. Gap-fillers are those’so-called buddies’ who make an entry in your life at just the wrong moment. When you face challenging times in your marriage or dating relationship, then it is normal that you have a friend who acts as your partner replacement. He/She is filled with all the good talks, assurances and may even want you to believe life is worth living, so why live with a spouse you are not pleased with?
But if you think really deep, it can be examined or assessed if you can’t live or put up with one partner, then there is no guarantee that you are able to put up with a new spouse. The beginning days of a new and rosy relationship might seem to be the best, but you never know when the same relationship may turn to your own worst.
The best advice once your marriage or relationship isn’t working is to wait patiently and to give yourself and partner the time to work out whether it is truly over, and for genuine reasons so that you don’t get an opportunity to regret in life for missing out on the best.
Giving Your Best in Your Marriage or Dating

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